Irrational Thinking Styles – Overgeneralizing
September 18, 2009 by admin
Filed under Mind Management
Irrational Thinking Styles: Overgeneralizing
Drawing generalizations from a single instance. For example, if you blow one job interview because of nerves, an overgeneralized thought would be “I’ll never succeed in job interviews” (when a more rational thought would be: “I didn’t succeed in this one”). Key words here are – everybody/nobody, always/never, everyone.
Example
“I blew it again! This always happens, I’m hopeless”
Instead try
“Ok so I made a mistake. I don’t always make mistakes; there are lots of times when I make good decisions. I’m only human and humans make mistakes. What can I learn from this situation for next time?













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