ABCDE – Activating Events
October 23, 2009 by admin
Filed under Mind Management
ABCDE for Successful Mind Management: Activating Events
Identify the Trigger
The trigger or activating event may be visual, auditory, a smell, other feelings that sets in motion a chain that leads to you feeling bad.
What was the A of the sequence?
It was possibly stimulated by something somebody said or did, or a memory that you just had. You need to look for such words or memories as the following:
Words like “should”, “ought”, “must”, “have to”
The words “never” and “always”
Phrases starting with “what if…” and “if only…”
A key word or a small phrase
Words that make you feel discouraged and helpless
A brief mental picture, either a memory or an imagined future that makes you feel bad.
Write down that event now:













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